How To Make People Like You (^_^)

Being Approachable  and Likeable to Others

 Respect is something you cannot achieve by asking for it , you need to earn it . Same goes to make people around you like you . Gain it, not  asking for it .(^_^)..

At glance , let see how human  want to be treated and what are their/our requirements to form a close relationship between us .

 Abraham Maslow with his Hierarchy of Needs gave 5 steps of human needs which we can keep in mind as a strategies of approaching and understanding others .

                  

A visual aid Maslow created to explain his theory, which he called the Hierarchy of Needs, is a pyramid depicting the levels of human needs, psychological and physical. When a human being ascends the steps of the pyramid he reaches self actualization.

• At the bottom of the pyramid are the “Basic needs or Physiological needs” of a human being, food and water and sex.

• The next level is “Safety Needs: Security, Order, and Stability.” These two steps are important to the physical survival of the person. Once individuals have basic nutrition, shelter and safety, they attempt to accomplish more.

• The third level of need is “Love and Belonging,” which are psychological needs; when individuals have taken care of themselves physically, they are ready to share themselves with others, such as with family and friends.

• The fourth level is achieved when individuals feel comfortable with what they have accomplished. This is the “Esteem” level, the need to be competent and recognized, such as through status and level of success.

• At the top of the pyramid, “Need for Self-actualization,” occurs when individuals reach a state of harmony and understanding because they have achieved their full potential.

Once a person has reached the self actualization state they focus on themselves and try to build their own image. They may look at this in terms of feelings such as self confidence or by accomplishing a set goal.

The first four levels are known as 'Deficit needs' or 'D-needs'. This means that if you don't have enough of one the those 4 needs, you'll have the feeling to get it. But when you do get them then you feel content. 

These needs alone are not motivating.

Maslow wrote that there are certain conditions that must be fulfilled in order for the basic needs to be satisfied. For example, freedom of speech, freedom to express oneself, and freedom to seek new information are a few of the prerequisites. Any blockages of these freedoms could prevent the satisfaction of the basic need.

It's human nature to have many good friends which always give support at all times. Every man would like to be appreciated, loved and given attention. It's not easy for us to be individuals who loved by many and liked by others . But it's not impossible have close relationship with other .

Above all requirements to make people like you , hierarchy of needs by Maslow must be fulfilled to make them like you . Showing them our sincerity , our will to have friendship and don't forget to practice moral values in your life . This is to ensure no negative factor that prevent them liking you .

                         

Tips making people like you :

1. Smile. No, this doesn’t come as shock, but studies do show that the amount of time you smile during a conversation has a direct impact on how friendly you’re  to be.

2. Be easily impressed, entertained, and interested. Most people get more pleasure from wowing you with their humor and insight than from being wowed by your humor and insight. Let's they have the chances to talk more .That way ,they feel being appreciate .

3. Have a friendly, open, engaged behaviour. Lean toward people, nod, say “Uh-huh,” turn your body to face the other person’s body. Don’t turn your body away , it look rude . 

Having relationship ( whatever it is ) is very good .But when it comes to maintaining it ,many fail . Furthermore , people are unique and have their own way of thinking . 

Making people like you on long term have to go along with some effort . The concepts is make them happy(^_^)...

                         

                                                 

Here are some of the simple yet effective ways of making someone happy:

1. A simple touch of affection or love(^_^)

Extending happiness can be as simple as a touch of affection. Have you felt what it’s like to be in the loving arms of the people you love? Don’t you feel happy and assured by the caress of your special someone? I’m sure you do. . Remember that touch has hidden power, and it’s one of the longing of every person.

2. Be appreciative(^_^)

If you want to make someone happy you have to learn to appreciate them more. Give praise no matter how little—and give importance to the efforts they’ve made. People need to be appreciated one way or another, and by being generously appreciative, you are sure to extend happiness to someone.

3. Extend a helping hand(^_^)

Helping someone proves to be the most noble form of bringing happiness to someone. Nothing brings much greater delight to a person than finding a helping hand to aid him in his moments of need. All of us need a lending hand once in a while and we feel very happy when someone gives themselves when we needed the most. Be alert for this opportunity if you want give someone a dose of happiness.

4. Show kindness(^_^)

 

It is said that kindness is the universal language of love. By being kind to someone we are expressing our concern for the other. Kindness makes us realize our connection with others; irrespective of any barriers, any show of kindness represent an act of love. When someone shows us kindness it lifts our spirits and gives us an unexplainable feeling of gratitude. It makes us happy knowing that someone have made an effort to go out of their way just to extend their grace.

In conclusion , maintaining people to like  you have two step to keep in mind . First thing is to make them like you by showing how good you are and the second step are the way you  going along with the relationship formed . Regularly  , relationship wont last long when either you or your partner very  egoistic  and don't want to tolerate with each other . 

Making someone happy is not easy . It's a matter of being sensitive to one's needs . 

There are many ways we can entertain someone to make them happy.  But first , realize that human are different . We can't simply treat them the way we think they will happy and like us . Something good for someone doesn't mean it is the best for other . Human nature are unique!

If we truly want to have people like us ,concerning their interest is the best method . Furthermore , we can give them what they like most . Keep this in mind ,don't let you  hurt your own feeling . Consideration is very important ! 

Try this and good luck(^_^)

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